“What you think, you create. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you become.”
I came across The Secret at the beginning of 2018, whilst going through a bit of a rough patch. Although I was content and comfortable in the life that I was living, I wouldn't say that deep down I was truly happy.
I put all the time and energy I had into blogging whilst working a full time job. I often found myself exhausted with very little satisfaction. I didn't like the house I was living in , I was constantly worried about my dog, as I felt that I wasn't spending enough time with him, I had no interest in love life, as I felt that people I was meeting were not making me happier. I was worried about where my life was going and I really felt like that was something missing.
The phrase ' Law of Attraction ' seemed to be something I was hearing on daily basis, yet I had no idea what it really was until I heard a friend of mine mention a book called ' The Secret ' and how much it positively changed her life. Although, I was't going to believe in any kind of magic, I didn't see any harm in giving it a read.
Once I started to read, I could not stop. I ended up finished the book within two days. I felt so inspired to take control of my life, find inner peace and getting everything I have ever dreamt of.
I ran to the beach and started to meditate. At first, I was listening to ocean sounds to try to find the calm within me. For the first time in my life I really felt that I was able to switch off and think about absolutely nothing. Meditation suddenly became my life, I was doing it whenever and wherever I could. Once I have found my inner peace I've focused on gratitude. By meditating and being able to focus solidly on all the things in my life that I am grateful for I started to feel so happy, it was impossible for me to stop smiling. I didn't even that this state of mind existed. I didn't think that you can find yourself so so happy without the need of anyone or anything. You don't have to go on holiday to feel relax, you can be by yourself but you don't feel lonely. You suddenly learn to be so grateful for everything you have and it's hard to find a reason not to be happy.
The next step for me was to figure out point by point what it was I wanted. I knew that my career was important to me and my day job was making me SO FUCKING MISERABLE. I wanted to love myself for who I am, without feeling the need of changing everything. I knew that if I was in a relationship, I wanted it to impact my life in the most positive of ways, yet I wasn't looking to meet anyone.
I wanted excitement and adventure. I wrote down point by point what it was I wanted, I made sure that it was completely achievable.
The most important thing in the law of attraction is that you do not let a negative thought enter your mind. You MUST believe that this is what you deserve and this is what you will get. I became so focused on just keeping positive and happy, on meditating and enjoy every moment that suddenly I blinked and everything I wanted became reality...
I was able to leave my job overnight and afford to live off doing what I loved - blogging. My summer was filled with the best adventures and everyday brought me a new surprise. I now live in a house that I love, I have all the space I've ever needed, I feel extremely happy and lucky to live here, and my dog seems SO MUCH happier as well. Never mind the fact, that by complete accident I met someone who matched all of the personality trades I wrote down and just like that, was able to give me everything I could have ever wished for.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying this book is magic and if you focus hard enough of growing wings, you'll wake up being able to fly. What I am saying is this book helps you focus on that's important to you. It will help you keep the positivity and self belief you need to achieve everything in life.
The secret has changed my life forever in that most positive of ways and if I can recommend to anyone to do something in this coming week, is to give it a read.